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Strike & you’re out! Slithering snake Wife cheating scandal exposed at the ball game! | These Hoes ain’t loyal! | — August 3, 2015

Strike & you’re out! Slithering snake Wife cheating scandal exposed at the ball game! | These Hoes ain’t loyal! |


Two sisters who were attending the Atlanta Braves vs. Los Angeles Dodgers baseball game on Wednesday night claim they helped expose a man’s cheating wife after they caught her sexting with another man on her cellphone.
Delana and Brynn Hinson were sitting right behind the man’s spouse when they happened to catch the unidentified woman sexting a man saved as “Nancy’ in her phone, all while cuddling with her husband. The two quickly leaned over the woman’s shoulder and took pictures of her texts and posted them on Twitter, Brynn writing: “These hoes ain’t loyal so we expose em.”

Delana then decided to write a note to the man during the game that read: “Your wife is cheating on you. Look at the messages under Nancy! Its really a man named Mark Allen. There are pictures on my phone.”

In the photos posted on Twitter, the woman’s secret lover is listed as “Nancy” in her phone but refers to him as “Mark Allen.”

“My love … Mark Allen, I love … much …” one text, partially hidden by the woman’s hand, reads.

“I will be the naked … laying on the ground,” another reads.

One of the sisters also wrote her phone number on the note, saying she can share the photos if the texts get deleted, and added, at the end of the message, “Sorry, just thought you should know!”

As the man was leaving the game, the sisters quickly handed him the note. About 30 minutes later, the girls claim the man messaged them asking for the pictures.

@jocyviviana @lanabaybee8

View image on TwitterBrynn received a text messaging that read: ‘This is the guy you gave the message to at the ball game send me that pic please.

To demonstrate that the events weren’t faked, the sisters also posted a video of when they were writing the note that evening and when the guy sent the text asking for the pictures.

It looks like they covered all the bases.

Once again, another Cheater is Exposed! Case Closed till next time

Cheers to Brynn!

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Boyfriend Confesses To Murdering Cheating Girlfriend And Her Sidepiece Video — June 27, 2015

Boyfriend Confesses To Murdering Cheating Girlfriend And Her Sidepiece Video

A disturbing video has surfaced online of a distraught boyfriend allegedly confessing to the murder of his cheating girlfriend and her lover. The shocking three-minute video, which appears to have been recorded on June 11, begins with the boyfriend apologizing for discussing his problems on Facebook. However, it’s probably safe to say no one may have expected him to share the information that he did.

He goes on to recount the night he learned of his girlfriend’s betrayal. He stated that she’d asked several times if he’d be working overnight. Since her persistence seemed relatively odd, he wondered why she insisted on making sure he wouldn’t be coming home. So, he told her he’d be working late, but purposely went home earlier than she expected.

To his shock and dismay, he was met with a scene he never thought he would experience. Based on the romantic setting he claims he saw inside the home, it was obvious that his girlfriend had company. It didn’t take long for her boyfriend to figure out that she and her lover had planned a night of romance. There were candles lit, soft music playing, and water running in the bathroom. So, of course, he headed toward the bathroom but he initially he didn’t see his girlfriend. Instead, he saw a nude man. Then, he noticed the guy wasn’t alone. He was engaging in a sexual act with his girlfriend. That’s when things quickly took a horrific turn for the worse.

*Warning: Video contains explicit language that may be offensive to some viewers. Viewer discretion is strongly advised.*

He admitted that he’d gone into the kitchen to get a hammer. When he returned to the bathroom, he allegedly bludgeoned his girlfriend. Then, he turned his attention to her lover. When her lover attempted to leave, he allegedly bludgeoned him as well. The guy reportedly fell into the tub and the boyfriend admitted he’d tossed the radio into the water and electrocuted him. He went on to share details about his plans to dispose of his girlfriend’s body. He concluded in tears stating that he’d threw his life away for love and planned to turn himself into local police once the video surfaced online.

The disturbing clip, titled “Did This Man Just Confess To Murdering His Girlfriend & Her Side Dude On Facebook?,” was uploaded to World Star Hip Hop on Friday, June 26. In a matter of hours, the clip has gone viral with more than 450,000 views. Although some viewers wonder if the guy’s confession is a joke or parody, many still find the clip quite alarming. However, definitive details about the boyfriend’s confession are still scarce.


If You Love Your Partner, Please Don’t Cheat! It Scars The Relationship! — June 26, 2015

If You Love Your Partner, Please Don’t Cheat! It Scars The Relationship!

My story started about 7 years ago. My ex-wife was 32 at that time, (10 yrs. younger than me). She has great legs and is considered pretty. She works as a corporate trainer and usually trains young managers in a classroom environment. She always dresses professionally, in a skirt suit primarily.

This particular class started on a Monday and ended on a Friday morning. As always, Lisa (not her real name) would give me a rundown of the people in the class and what she felt about them. She mentioned two particular young men that she was having trouble with from the get go. I’ll call them the two Amigo’s. She noted they were obviously partiers and would come in hung over and disruptive. Every night she had more complaints and frustration. Yes, the background info is pertinent to the story.

On Thursday, she told me she was taking the class out to do their standard celebratory dinner. My wife wore a particularly short skirt that day. It was a black suit, white lace camisole and black, sheer hose. I remember because she usually didn’t wear a shorter skirt when she taught, (Should have been my first clue). She told me she’d be home by 8 as usual.

Well, 8 rolled around with no Lisa. Around 9 pm I called her and was met with a slurred voice and very loud background music. She told me her boss wanted her to stay out with them and she promised she’d be home by 11 pm (2nd clue I missed, her boss doesn’t drink). I told her to make sure she didn’t drive and went back to my business.

I must have fallen asleep on the couch and awoke at 1 am. I was shocked that Lisa wasn’t home and promptly called. The call went straight to voicemail. Yes, I started thinking the worst and was relieved to hear a car pull up around 2 am. I rushed to the door and was greeted with my wife getting out of the back seat of an SUV. The door was being held open by a young black man. My wife stumbled and began fixing her skirt and trying to put her jacket on. He reached out to steady her and I could hear him laughing. She walked towards the door and the vehicle pulled away with a departing honk.

My blood pressure was rising as I opened the door. Lisa stumbled past me and went straight upstairs, saying nothing. I followed; asking her what the hell was going on. She said, “Nothing, I just drank too much” and closed the bathroom door on my face. I could hear her undressing and peeing. She came out wearing pajamas and crawled into bed, promptly passing out. I was pissed off and shocked.

I went in to the bathroom and her clothes were piled on the floor. I picked up her skirt to put it in the hamper and was greeted with white stains all over the back of skirt. I was shocked. Her stockings were torn and also looked like they had stains on the thighs. My whole world was blown when I noticed among the pile, the Victoria’s Secret Thong I gave her as an Anniversary gift, it was soaked and it smelled p*ssy and semen all over it! In my heart I knew what had happened, however, I wanted an explanation. She would not awaken.

I didn’t sleep and arose with her at 5:30 am. She was obviously still drunk and groggy. She stumbled out of bed with me following. I demanded an explanation. She began crying, telling me she was sorry, and that she didn’t mean to have it happen. Knowing, not believing, I demanded she tell me what happened.

I prepared coffee for both of us to calm her down so she can start talking. Lisa almost went into a trance and re-capped the evening. She told me she started drinking wine with dinner and began drinking with the two Amigo’s. She told me she was going to show them she could hang with them and drank shots. Lisa said everyone left around 9 and she went to a club with the Amigo’s. Lisa noted she got hammered and started dancing a lot with both of them. She says she knew she needed to leave but was having fun and she said she really liked the Amigo’s attention.

She told me one of the guys, (The black one), pulled her in a side room at the bar and they ended up making out. She said he had her skirt up and her panties down to her knees before she knew it. He put her on a banquet table. Lisa said he got between her legs and before she could protest, he’d pulled out his manhood and shove it up inside her. She told me he’s not that huge and he didn’t last long. She gave me an assurance that he didn’t come inside her because he pulled out (Was that supposed to make me feel better?).

Lisa noted they went back to the bar and she danced with the other Amigo. Lisa noted she ended up in the meeting room with him as well and he bent her over the table, adding that just like the first guy, he also didn’t last long, he also pulled out and come outside. I doubt it for a second. Her panties undeniably smells “mutual orgasm” all over it! I knew she’s just partially telling the truth. It’s all written in her face. So I asked her, is that all? Lisa hesitated for awhile but after a couple of minutes, she broke down and cried. She was so embarrassed when she told me she got in the back seat with the first Amigo (the black one) and he made her rode him cow girl style on the way home.

She said she was sorry and she loved me. I stood there perplexed and confused. I love her and I managed to forgive her but I couldn’t forget that incident. It left an ugly scar on our marriage. After 5 years, we got divorced. This is the reason why I’m easily turned off with girls who loves parties and drinking. They remind me of my ex.


I Love my Mistress and my Wife! — June 25, 2015

I Love my Mistress and my Wife!

Married for 21 years, always faithful, 4 kids, but I’ve ended up in a torrid affair with a beautiful woman and I love it.

My wife and I got married when she got pregnant, we decided to take a chance after only knowing each other 6 months. We’ve made it work, but she is not my soul mate and sex is and never has been a priority for her whereas I have a high sex drive.

She doesn’t like to do the things I like to do sexually, and really I’m not a hardcore perv. She doesn’t like oral, giving or receiving, and the sex is clinical and she mostly just wants to get it over with if I’m lucky enough to talk her into it at all. Lots of rejection and built up resentment.

My lover on the other hand I am 100% locked in with sexually. OMFG it is so good. The kissing alone is incredible.

Since I’ve been with her, my marriage has gotten better and I’m more attentive to my wife, and my feelings of resentment for her not doing what I want sexually have subsided. It’s totally mellowed me out. I have no desire to leave her now, and I love and respect her and I don’t want to ask her to do things she doesn’t enjoy.

My lover has zero expectations and knows I am not leaving wife and is totally fine with me coming over once a week to screw our brains out.

I love two women, my heart is big enough. I know I’m having my cake and eating it too, but I don’t care. I hope the affair lasts a long time and I hope my wife never finds out. If she did, I’d tell her the truth and ask her for an open marriage.

I’m crazy


Can’t turn a Dog into a Man —

Can’t turn a Dog into a Man

Walked up on my boyfriend (at the time) full on making out with another girl…made eye contact with me as I walked by but didn’t stop kissing her. He later on somehow convinced me it was a mistake…I forgave him and thought we could work it out. Fast forward month or two- I find out they are sleeping together. Awesome. We break up- he tells me she has moved and is no longer in the picture…For some reason I decide it would be different this time and we get back together. Fast forward another few months…he had been avoiding me for a few weeks. I knew something was up – but, I thought that if I was just a little sexier, if I made better breakfast and bought him more things and just in general tried to be the absolute best girlfriend that he would fall in love with me again. Out of the blue one day he calls and asks if I would come over to see him before I go to work. Of course, I was beyond ecstatic. I bought expensive lingerie in his favorite color. I made his favorite breakfast, picked up his favorite Gatorade and had a small gift all wrapped up and ready to hide somewhere in his room so he could find it at a later date. God this is hard to even write…how stupid was I? Anyways, I get there and I’m all nervous and hopeful and excited. He answers the door and says he’s going to take a shower and opens the door to his room so I could wait for him. I change into the outfit I bought and start looking for a good place to hide his gift and re-heating the breakfast I made him. He left his phone on his dresser…We all know where this is going right? I opened it ( Yes, open. He had a flip phone) and see nude pictures from 3 other girls. The raunchiest texts I have ever read. 2 of them he apparently had just seen the night before. Best part of all…I find out he has also secretly married one of these 3 girls and she is with child. His child. Oh,and another one of the three had an STD. I also found out he planned on giving her one of my dresses I had left there a few months prior on a day that I came over after work and changed to go with him to a soccer game. He asked me to leave it there…that sick bastard. My mom bought me that dress.


My Best Friend’s Husband : I Cheated On My Husband Story & Experience — June 11, 2015

My Best Friend’s Husband : I Cheated On My Husband Story & Experience

My Best Friend’s Husband

I have never written a story for this or any other site before, but I wanted to share to someone what I have been involved with over the past few months.

It started a couple of months ago. I had a friend, my best friend in fact, get married to a guy (Adam) that I had not known. They had dated for a little over a year, but he was in the military deployed overseas. I had seen pictures of him and had even chatted with him online with her (they met online). He was cute to say the least, but I didn’t give it a second thought. I was, after all, married to a guy that means the world to me. I love my friend dearly and really was just enjoying watching her get to know this guy, and seeing her happy was great.

Adam returned home two weeks prior to their wedding. My friend was so excited and wanted all of us to have a big celebration dinner and party. The party was to be at my and my husband’s house. Sara (my best friend) and Adam met my husband and me, as well as several other people, at a local pizza/wing/beer pub for the dinner. Adam and Sara walked up to me and Sara introduced me. As I looked at Adam I was struck by his muscular frame. He is over 6’ tall and roughly 200 lbs (I am 5’3” and 115). He has crystal blue eyes and a smile that is both warm and inviting. Adam stuck out his hand and shook mine and we pulled each other into the ‘non-sexual’ half hug thing. I am not sure what happened in that instant, but I knew at that very moment I was in trouble.

We all spent the next 2 or so hours in the pub eating, drinking, laughing, and having a great time. I was fixated on Adam and I knew he knew it. He didn’t seem to mind at all, and on more than one occasion tipped his beer mug to me and winked. We were not really any closer than 10 or so feet from each other at the restaurant (we sat on opposite sides of the table, and down from one another some). We all were leaving the pub to pile into our cars and head to our house to continue the evening, when Adam motioned me to exit the restaurant before him by holding the door open for me. As I passed him, he took his free hand (the hand not holding the door open) and lightly brushed my hip as I passed. I casually turned around and there he was winking again.

I didn’t know what to make of it, but I knew that I was dripping wet thinking about him. Driving home I made a conscious decision. I told myself that I would test him to see if he was being a nice guy and harmlessly flirting, or if he had ulterior motives. I want to say that I was going to test him for my friend’s benefit, but the truth is I wasn’t going to tell her regardless of the outcome. I wanted to know if I had interested him the way he had me. They arrived at the party shortly after I did, and we all were gathered out in the back yard. In the course of the initial small talk my husband offered to show Adam our house. Our house isn’t huge, but it’s two stories and he loves to show off his garage with all of his ‘man toys’. I spent a few minutes with the girls, and then excused myself to the upstairs bathroom, telling Sara that I wanted to get out of my dress and into more casual clothes because I was cold. I also knew that the upstairs bathroom had a vent that allowed me to hear everything in the garage so I knew when they would be coming out of the garage and heading upstairs on the house tour.

I listened to my husband and Adam talking about him being over in Iraq for a few minutes and the sound of his voice intoxicated me further. I felt like a little girl with a high school crush, but I also felt like the conniving ***** to even think sexual thoughts about a guy my best friend was marrying in a matter of days. They finally came in from the garage and headed upstairs. I had not yet changed, and when I saw them reach the top of the stairs I acted surprised and told my husband that I wanted to change clothes and have a few quiet moments before returning to the party, but that I didn’t want to be rude to our guests and asked him to go downstairs and let everyone know I’d be back shortly. I also asked that he be the good host and mingle with all of our friends until I got back. My husband readily agreed, not suspecting anything, and as he turned to head downstairs Adam was behind him, but looking at me still. He could see me, but my husband had already gone down enough stairs that I was out of his sightline. I motioned to Adam to return to the upstairs bathroom in 5 minutes. He got what I was motioning him to do, nodded in agreement, and followed my husband downstairs.

Now I was a nervous wreck. I had laid my cards out and was waiting to see what he would do. The few minutes passed like hours and I was almost sick to my stomach, but when he casually climbed the stairs and rounded the corner he looked at me and walked into the bathroom and closed the door, but didn’t latch it. I walked over and looked out the window and saw my husband and Sara and several of our friends laughing and drinking by the pool. My husband had taken up the role of bartender and Sara was sitting there with others just enjoying the drinks and the atmosphere. I knew I had some time.

I walked to the bathroom and pushed the door open enough to slide in. I shut the door behind me and said to Adam, “I don’t know what I’m doing here, but no matter what, no one can know I’m here with you.”

Adam said, “I’m good with that” and smiled at me again.

I had changed into my sweatshirt and didn’t have a bra on. He could see my nipples poking through and knew I was turned on. He moved towards me and as I was leaning against the door he kissed me gently. He started slowly, but soon our tongues were dancing and he had his hands under my shirt, feeling up my 36Cs. I unbuttoned his pants and felt his member in my hand and realized that he was very much a man! It was very hot and heavy for a few minutes.

I had to stop him before it got out of hand that night, but I told him that I would be home alone the following Monday during the day (when both my husband and Sara were at work). I wrote my cell number on a piece of toilet paper with an eyeliner brush (of all things) and gave it to him.

He said, “To be continued then” and slipped out of the bathroom.

I was shaking in my knees for several minutes before I could gather myself enough to go back outside. The rest of the night progressed without incident, and I knew I had all day Sunday to both obsess over what could happen Monday or convince myself to be a true friend and not follow through.

Monday morning around 10:00 am my cell phone rang and it was Sara’s home number. I answered it and of course it was Adam. He asked me if my husband was gone for the day and I told him yes. He said that Sara was gone all day as well. I asked if he really wanted to go through with anything and he said he was more than willing, if I was and if it could remain our little secret. I paused and mentally answered ‘no, no, no, no, no,’ but all of a sudden I heard myself say “My front door will be unlocked” and I hung up.

45 minutes later Adam again walked up the stairs and saw me standing in the doorway to my bedroom. I was wearing a one-piece satin pajama dress and nothing else. This time he didn’t waste any time. He walked over to me and kissed me deeply. I reached around and grabbed him by his back and dug my nails in. He instinctively lifted my pajama dress over my head (as I instinctively raised my arms for him) and picked me up to carry me to the bed.

I will not go into the gory details, but suffice it to say he did things to me in ways that no man has ever done before or since. We made love for about 3 hours and I knew that he had me anytime he wanted me. I do not regret what has happened so far, but I know that in an instant many worlds could come crashing down….has anyone had any similar experiences?           By Amybabe3a


Shocking Cheating Stories — May 31, 2015

Shocking Cheating Stories

1. Submitted by eli55

I wanted to plan a surprise birthday party for my boyfriend who I had been dating for a year. I asked his friend if he would help me with the planning and he gives me this weird look and says, “Yes, I’ll help you but I think he has other plans with his girlfriend.” I just stood there and he says, “I thought you guys broke up since he started dating a new girl.”

2. Submitted by Preeti Prakash (via Facebook)

I’m a Disney employee. He had asked me to get him Disney tickets so he could “take his little sister for her birthday.” Turns out he was taking the other woman… Guess who saw me and ran for it during my shift? Happiest place on Earth my ass.

3. Submitted by Amelia Hanna (via Facebook)

We were high school sweethearts that went off to different colleges. He came to visit me one weekend, and forgot to logout of Facebook on my computer before he left. I accidently stumbled upon his inbox and found explicit messages from a girl from his school. The messages included, “When are you going to break up with her?” and “That rim job last night was sooooo good babe!!!” There was a fair amount of sexting too! My favorite line from her that I’ll never forget: “Is your cum thick baby?” Who the fuck asks that?

4. Submitted by Meg Abbytch (via Facebook)

The credit card he ordered for his girlfriend came to my house. Long story short, he had taken me off of his account (mind you, I was his WIFE). A month later, a brand new Amex shows up in the mail, addressed to another woman. I was thinking that the mailman put something in my box for someone else, but nope, it was my address, and her name. I Googled her and saw that he and she were connected on Google+. Of course he denied denied denied and said, “If I wanted to add someone to my account, why would I have the card come to OUR house?” I said, “Cause you’re a dumb ass who probably didn’t realize that the card was going to go to the primary account holder’s address.” Of course, he still denied knowing her. So being the amazing detective that I am cause I grew up in the generation of Scooby-Doo and Inspector Gadget, I got into his Amex account and saw that he not only added her to his account, but he was spending a tremendous amount of money wooing her. He even took her “home” to meet his family last Thanksgiving. I saw the airline tickets he purchased when I was in his account. Oh and he took her to Vegas too… nice, right? Soooo I filed a missing spouse divorce. He had no idea I filed, and he had no idea we were divorced until I scanned the divorce decree and sent it to his work email address. And would you guys believe he had the nerve to say “I can’t believe you divorced me?”

5. Submitted by samher11

She would text him from my phone. She forgot to delete the last text.

6. Submitted by jessicas97

When I was a freshman in college, I was unexpectedly dumped by my (older, townie) boyfriend. It was the first and only time it ever happened, and I couldn’t figure out why. Fast forward nearly TEN years later. The ex and I are still friends, and reconnect on Facebook. One day he posts a video he made in 2003 (the same year we dated), of him kissing some other chick! I guess I finally got my explanation.

7. Submitted by Mark Henning (via Facebook)

He gave me chlamydia. That really fucking sucked.

8. Submitted by Maria Reckner (via Facebook)

His mom accidentally told me he’s still married! Oops.

9. Submitted by mesam

We were together for 5 years and engaged. I had just gotten home from a 16 hour shift to find him and my best friend at my kitchen table. She was pregnant and the baby was his. They tried to insist that it was a one time deal and an “accident.” That was a fun night.

10. Submitted by roger1217

I had taken my boyfriend of 3 months on a day trip to Philly. I already had a suspicion that he was lying to me, so I made a picture from our day together my Facebook profile pic and tagged him in it. Not 3 hours later that night, while he slept, I got a Facebook message from this girl asking me who the guy was in my picture. I told her I thought she already knew. Then the whole terrible truth spilled out: he was using me to cheat on his girlfriend of almost a year. She and I talked online for a bit, me apologizing of course for not knowing. I then woke him up, kicked him out of my bed and my life, and made him pay for both his real girlfriend and I to get tested at our local Planned Parenthood. I ripped him a new one that I’m sure still hurts him to this day.

11. Submitted by michelledardenc

His side girl called me at 3:00 in the morning to sing “Don’t Cha” by The Pussycat Dolls. Believe it or not she was worse than they actually were.

12. Submitted by jordanl4b42c1c3c

My dad caught him with another girl at a gas station at 6 in the morning.

13. Submitted by Jessica Stutzman (via Facebook)

My husband and I were laying on the couch 7 months after we were married, right before he was deployed. A random number texted him and I saw it, and it was someone asking him if he was free that night. I googled the number (photogenic memory :/) and it linked me to a prostitute on a website for hookers. When I went through my phone bill, I found dozens and dozens of prostitutes that he had been texting (and presumably doing more with) for pretty much the entirety of our marriage. The divorce becomes final this Friday!

14. Submitted by Brittany Conley (via Facebook)

My four year old cousin told me that my fiancé had come over with his new girl friend. Kids say the darndest things!

15. Submitted by glitterbabe

I walked in on them making out AT HIS MOM’S FUNERAL! That was pretty mind boggling.

16. Submitted by Sophia M. Echavarria (via Facebook)

I mean, technically, he wasn’t cheating. Or at least he said he didn’t. He dumped me because he got a crush on her riding the train and bus together as commuters. Even though she has a boyfriend that she lives with. Later, when I was looking her up (stalking?) I found a syllabus for a night class she teaches and saw that he was listed as a guest speaker. Based on the date, he agreed to do it before he dumped me. So… Ok.

17. Submitted by Rachael (via Facebook)

Had a hickey. Not from me. When I was like: “Is that a hickey?” he grinned at me. This was also the day after he insisted I renew our 1 year lease on our apartment. Did I mention the person he got the hickey from was a mutual co-worker? When I threatened to break the lease he told me he would take me to court. So basically I spent a year paying rent on 2 places. When the lease was finally up, I found used condoms in one of my art books. Karma got the best of him though. He lost all of the furniture we bought together, got fat, lost all of his hair and had to move back in with his mom.

Source: Buzzfeed

— May 19, 2015
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The Story Behind The Guy Who Caught His Wife And Sister-In-Law Cheating And Is Live-Updating It All —

The Story Behind The Guy Who Caught His Wife And Sister-In-Law Cheating And Is Live-Updating It All




It’s hard to take anything as pure truth these days, even if you see it with your own eyes. So when a guy comes onto Reddit and starts posting about how he thinks his wife is cheating on him, it’s easy to call it fake or just overlook it. But when the guy in question hires a private investigator, hacks his wife’s phone, and begins live-updating the entire ordeal, you might start to take notice.

That’s what currently happening with a user going by the name of MyLifeSuxNow. He posted his discovery of some incriminating texts onto the sub-reddit Today I F*cked Up and pleaded for help from the comments:

My wife (Jenny) and I have been married for 8 years. We met when we were 22 and we had both just graduated from university. It’s been great so far, we haven’t had a huge argument where we’ve had…

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Husband Erupts After Walking In On His Wife Cheating With Someone He Know — July 5, 2015
Confessions of a cheater — June 27, 2015

Confessions of a cheater

A life well styled.

It’s taken me awhile to put this piece together, procrastination? Possibly, or maybe just the fact that it’s sometimes hard to face the facts and admit that you’ve been a piece of shit in your past. Young and dumb is the easiest way to explain my take on my past cheating ways.

Let me begin with this statement, I didn’t always cheat on my past boyfriends, there were a few circumstances where I did and whether they “deserved it” or not, it happened. I have had relationships where I fully respected the other person and never even looked at another man, funnily enough, those were the relationships that I got cheated on and in return ended up having a hatred for cheaters (call it a double standard if you will but it did teach me to stop and think about my actions first. I hated how I felt whenever I…

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Devastating: Man Finds Out His Wife Is Cheating, Liveblogs His Private Investigator Catching Her In The Act, Finds Out His Sister-In-Law Is Involved —

Devastating: Man Finds Out His Wife Is Cheating, Liveblogs His Private Investigator Catching Her In The Act, Finds Out His Sister-In-Law Is Involved

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While you were sleeping or enjoying your weekend and holiday like a normal person, tens of thousands of Redditors were following the below saga of infidelity as user ‘MyLifeSuxNow‘ (MLSN) provided the play-by-play of discovering his wife of 8 years was sexting with another man, hiring a private investigator, and then coming to a horrible realization of infidelity that’s worse than anything he could have imagined.

Beginning on Friday, MLSN discovered naked pics were being handed back and forth between his wife and someone named Zack but instead of confronting her about it he decides that it’s better to figure out who Zack is and catch them together. In the meantime, he spends the next morning watching her as her phone dings over and over indicating she’s getting texts and when he goes to check her phone while she’s in the shower he discovers it’s…

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It Takes Two to Make a Marriage Work, I’ve cheated on my husband for three years — June 26, 2015

It Takes Two to Make a Marriage Work, I’ve cheated on my husband for three years

When we were dating, my husband once shared with me that he wanted to be a priest. I laughed it off in the same way that when I was eight I wanted to be a circus clown. I brushed it off as just one of those passing childhood fancies. How could my tough, good-looking boyfriend ever consider something so chaste? Not that I have any disrespect for the priesthood; it just seem a thousand miles away from who he was. Little did I know that his tough, manly exterior was hiding a deep-seated shame about sex.  When we were dating he never pressured me for sex. I thought he was a gentleman. I had mistaken my husband’s lack of a sex drive as gentlemanliness.

And that is where my secret comes from. I am having an affair. I have been having one for nearly three years.  After nearly 20 years of marriage my husband has completely cut me off from sex. Because he thinks it is a shameful act.

In the beginning of our marriage, we had sex maybe twice a week. There were times when I wanted more sex, but I understood he worked hard and felt tired at the end of the day. But he didn’t act tired. He just acted uninterested in sex. But he really wanted to be a father.  That was why we were having sex: he wanted children.

Once we had two children the sex went from once or twice a week, to once or twice a month, to once every three months, then once or twice a year. Now it has been about five years since we have had sex.

At first I asked him to talk about it with me. Was I too fat? Was I not doing something he needed me to do?

I got him to go to marriage counseling when I threatened to leave him. After months of counseling it came out — he disliked sex, always had. And furthermore, he did not want to change and was unwilling to change. Even for me.

I had two choices: stay in a sexless marriage or leave him. I wanted to leave him and was making plans to do so when one of our children came down with a life-threatening disease.  And then the economy tanked. I lost my good paying job. (Even now, we have not financially recovered from that double whammy.)

While he may be a horrid husband, he is a good father and works hard to provide for his children. Around that time he coped with the stress by playing on-line games like World of Warcraft. He drew even further away from me as the game began to monopolize every free moment of his day. Little things he used to do for me like oil changes and mowing the grass stopped. I took over doing everything, plus taking care of a very sick child.

One day coming home in the rain I got a flat tire. I called him to come help me, but his response was to call a tow truck. It was raining and he was in the middle of a “raid” in his game and if he left, he would let his online friends down.

I was so angry, and then it was as if Fate took a hand. Our mechanic was driving by and noticed my car. He got out of his warm dry car and changed my tire on the side of the road. Then had me follow him to his shop and put a patch on the flat tire. I offered to pay him, but he refused. He was soaking wet and I told him he had to let me do something, at least buy him a cup of coffee.

He accepted and one thing lead to another. Later that day I was at his house, in his bed, having amazing sex.

That was three years ago. I’m still seeing him. He isn’t married. He lost his pregnant wife and mother in a car accident 15 years ago and never was able to recover enough to want another deep relationship. He doesn’t want to get married again, and I don’t want to get divorced.  We see each other about once a week, sometimes more, sometimes less.

Maybe I should feel guilty, but I don’t. I had been so starved for affection, for just a touch, a hug, a kiss. I wanted to feel passion again; I wanted to feel that I was still a sexy woman. He gives me what my husband refuses to give.  Maybe if things had been different, I would have left my husband. But as things stand now, I don’t see a way out and until then I’m going to take this little piece of happiness any way I can.